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  • What age did you not think you'd make it to and why?

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  • Good tip, thanks dad.

  • It's true

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  • I know this rationally and I don't hold others to this standard but damn if my inner anxiety gremlin doesn't constantly scream the opposite is true.

  • What age did you not think you'd make it to and why?

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  • I don't know if I ever thought I'd die young or something but I certainly didn't expect to make it this far nor really do I know what I'm doing. I never thought about being an adult. It never occurred to me that it was going to happen. My parents never prepared me to be an adult so I didn't and don't know what to expect.

    Good side effect is that I'm reasonably true to my weird-ass self which is rather freeing.

  • If your child came out to you, how did you adjust?

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  • I never would have come out to my parents. They would not have handled it well. Our kids have come out to us, and we've reassured them that it doesn't matter. We had kids to love them and raise awesome adults, no matter what.

    My advice is to tell them that this takes time for you to adjust. Old habits are hard to break. One kid has been on HRT for over a year and eeeeeeeevery once in a while I'll call them their birth gender. Kids don't understand that we view them as a sum of all their life. They only view themselves in that instant. No matter that my trans kid is Gender A now, I still have sooooo many memories and pictures of them as Gender B, and I love that part of them, still. I love both periods of my kiddo's life.

  • With next week's update, Super Store items will no longer rotate weekly and will always be available

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  • Great. Another way to spend super credits I don't have.

  • よすが (by ゆうさん)

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  • Feelgood friday... what are you looking forward to this weekend?

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  • Resting. I am, as bilbo said, like butter spread over too much bread.

  • Is the "everyday stuff" supposed to feel normal? Do y'all just have a parent do things then when you're supposed to be the adult you panic?

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  • You probably do have those issues. I did and do too. Being courageous is doing it anyway. My anxiety brain is very loud sometimes. It takes a lot of practice and energy and some meds but I do stuff anyway. I have to be okay with screwing up. I used to be a perfectionist and still have to fight that. Just do stuff and deal with the consequences. 99% of things can be retried.

  • How disabling is mild dyslexia?

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  • I have mild dyslexia or something. For example, I'll reverse words in sentences and won't even realize I've done it until my kids start laughing. When reading or listening, sometimes I'll take in the information but it's all garbled and my brain just ejects it. I had to adapt and just catch those moments and reread or ask for clarification. I have a post grad degree, so it made life harder but didn't stop me.

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    i ❤️ my puter

  • Have you ever traveled to County DEATH, Ireland?

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  • Lemme guess, the inset map is Ai slop.

  • New EXOs and warbond

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  • Vinyl Miku

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  • Removed

    Lemmy.world Admin MrKaplan rages over anti-Zionism banning users and defederating instances

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  • Why would anyone doordash food from a place that already does delivery?

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  • People generally buy things a certain way or place for 3 reasons - cost, quality or convenience. Door Dash already has tons of stuff in their app.

    IMO, people are used to it. It's very convenient.

  • I drew adult Toph

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  • Fritos test

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  • Touch Fluffy Tail @ani.social
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    Untitled by stopu

  • MidriffMoe @ani.social
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    Untitled by stopu

  • KemonoMoe @ani.social
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    Untitled by stopu

  • Anime armor @lemmy.zip
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    Lady knight sketch by nrcgray

  • Church of Thighentology @ani.social
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    Yorozu by NEZ-BOX

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    Yorozu by NEZ-BOX

  • Mecha, robots, vehicles, ships @lemmy.zip
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    StarCraft 2 (2010): Thor vs Zerglings, art by Peter Lee

  • Fritos test

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  • Not exactly. Tortilla chips are dried before frying. Fritos are not.

  • Games @lemmy.world
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    NES composer Masanori Miyamoto uploaded original synth compositions before they're converted

  • Fritos test

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  • What's your special interest?

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  • 3d printing and fermentation. I'm fascinated by making my own variants of things.

  • Mecha, robots, vehicles, ships @lemmy.zip
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    Nishio Heavy Industries_01 (by Nanora)

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
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    Why is US rail travel so expensive?

  • Mecha, robots, vehicles, ships @lemmy.zip
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    Patlabor EZY File 1 Reveals Trailer and Visual

    anitrendz.net /news/2026/03/19/patlabor-ezy-file-1-reveals-trailer-and-visual/
  • World of Warcraft @lemmy.world
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    The Digital Plague: When World of Warcraft Accidentally Simulated a Pandemic (op's article!)

  • Factorio @lemmy.world
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    "hall of the whale king"

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
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    How to find a fan that blows 90° from intake?

  • World of Warcraft @lemmy.world
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    ugh. I just resigned as guild and raid leader and I didn't want to

  • Church of Thighentology @ani.social
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    Mira from K-Pop Demon Hunters by bene

  • ThiccMoe @ani.social
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    Lucy from edge runners by tonyneva

  • CyberMoe @ani.social
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    Lucy from edge runners by tonyneva

  • MidriffMoe @ani.social
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    Bad Angels 🕊️ #pantyandstocking by DEOGIE