Has anyone else been told “you just haven’t met the right guy yet” or anything similar?

I have been told by this straight/bi girl who turned out to be quite racist (and homophobic, so she was likely but not definitely straight) so I stopped being her friend, but that’s beside the point, that “she was a lesbian too until she met her perfect boyfriend” and that I just hadn’t met my perfect guy yet. I am a lesbian. I’ve tried with guys and I only dated them because I felt bad for them and they seemed sweet. I’m more mature now than to date a man because I like the attention he gives me and feel bad, I an absolutely les (well i like enbies and women)