I get tons of automated spam calls, I intentionally take the bait and try to waste their time. Lately, they have been targeting Chinese speakers, so it's harder for me to waste their time.
I think cooking a soup in his kitchen on the second date may be perceived as moving in. Maybe not technically moving in, but definitely making yourself at home.
Edit:
Never too early to start communicating though:
"Hey, I have no plans today, and I want to make soup. Would it be cool if I cooked us some soup? I can head home afterwards so you don't get sick of me"
Or some variation. Point is, ask him, give him a chance to get on the crazy/chemistry train with you.
Still all boils down to us as users reporting it correctly and the admins being available to resolve it.
The latest post on firearms@lemmy.world is NSFW and has been up almost a day without moderation, despite being reported. So a lack of moderation can happen anywhere.
Definitely, but they had a period where unmarked nsfw was ending up in everyone's feed when people forgot to manually add the tag, which was very annoying.
The illegal stuff is a threat to all instances, regardless of NSFW, as accounts can spam it anywhere.
I'm gonna interpret that as you are hung like a whale, and the footpath isn't large enough. Congrats!