Sorry to hear about your Dad. My Mum's slowing down now and I'm fearing the day that her money dries up and I'll have to bring her in to live with us... she's lovely, but it's the loss of independance (for all concerned).
But, I saw a yoochoob recently which reminded me that sometimes we need to do the right things, which might not be the nice things, so I hope the ultimatum works for your Dad
For me, Logseq does a really good job, but I'm finding it difficult to keep track of ToDos and silverbullet just seems like it's a bit simpler and could do everything I need
I'm also seeing Logseq head towards a database-first version, which I'm not a fan of, so wanted to try other markdown file-first options before / if I have to jump ship
However, Silverbullet's learning curve is much steeper than Logseq's.
As someone who's seen the internet arrive, watched the various battles (best seen on Internet Explorer at 640x320) and tried all the latest things (why use gopher when google can search immediately), then I do think it started out well
But, yep, I've also seen the effects when the bills needed paying and realising that just taking things that are "free" without giving anything back is unsustainable.
That's why I contribute when & where I can... Arch Wiki, Open Street Map, a few payments to developers and independant media sources, helping others...
But it takes some effort and I get it, not everyone has the same priorities. Yet.
Syncthing and anything that can work with plain text / markdown files
I'm using Logseq on 2 laptops, but the Android app slows down when you have several years of daily journal pages linked to hundreds of other content pages, so it's fine for personal stuff (aka graph), but slows down too much for my work stuff (graph)
So for my phone I'm often just using Markor to edit a journal page as it's faster (it doesn't have to find all the links)
Kinda forgot that Easter's a bit more than a normal Bank Holiday weekend, so nipped down to B&Q, wondered why the carpark was so empty, walked up to the door... ah... closed.
Yeah, those 4 days just flew by...
Sorry to hear about your Dad. My Mum's slowing down now and I'm fearing the day that her money dries up and I'll have to bring her in to live with us... she's lovely, but it's the loss of independance (for all concerned).
But, I saw a yoochoob recently which reminded me that sometimes we need to do the right things, which might not be the nice things, so I hope the ultimatum works for your Dad