Hmm, I guess that makes sense. It really sucks though, why can't people in queer spaces (especially fellow queer people) be nice and respect people's identities...
Don't tell other people whether or not they are a specific gender, that's rude. Why does there seem to be more of this kind of reaction as of late, first on my post, now here?
Yes, I use an Epilator (very painful), my body hair is already much thinner just from doing that alone. Though I wish it were less noticeable or even just not there.
Not planning on getting HRT since I don't really want to grow breasts.
I don't know what Girlstink is but I assume it's related to HRT.
Thank you very much for the offer, though ultimately I choose lemmy.ca since it has more local communites and I also need to access content on sh.itjust.works
Second one seems very likely, the text in the sidebar implies that it's very hands off "Why trust some Big Tech corporation to host your data when some random geek can do it?". Also the instance went down for a few minutes when I tried to post something there on my old account but then miraculously came back up again, I'm not sure if Lemmy has automatic crash recovery so this might not be a good indicator.
I'd say it's not quite KKK level content but it's not very far off, their leader said that he would ban anyone promoting violence but he also said it was because we would use it to vilify right-wingers which doesn't make me think he's against it, just trying to save face. It he weren't he probably would be encouraging violence. So it's right on the edge of being KKK level.
Also by the way the defederation has already happened, lemmy.world is no longer connected to rammy which is why I'm replying from a lemmy.ca account.
How so?