I've switched from 3090 to the XTX few months back because of a really weird and unique bugs in one of my games (but otherwise it worked alright) and for few months had a lot more problems then I had with nvidia, especially with suspend but sometimes it would just crash (Plasma).
I did also switch to Plasma/Wayland with the upgrade so who knows but few kernels/mesa versions back were really bad, it works nicely now though [Arch]
I am pretty sure no distro uses/works with the the .run files, you should be installing the drivers through the respective package manager.
Also why Kali? it's a very specialized distribution for cyber security. It's not for usual desktop uses