Thank you very much, that was very helpful! I am leaning towards Zigbee2MQTT and it seems to be a good choice.
ZHA is out of question now, since how often I have to restart HA for updates, I am sure it would be annoying to me. My Mosquitto Instance however does not receive updates as frequent, so Z2M might be the better choice for me.
Could you tell me what kind of Bridge / Device / Dongle you use? I often read Conbee II**, but this is not on the recommended list for Z2M. On the other hand I am thinking about getting a Network only Gateway (there are some on the recommended list too), so I do not rely on a USB connection that needs to be mapped to a Docker Container. Having pure Network connections and independent devices sounds like a more stable solution. Also I assume having a Networked Gateway instead of a USB connected one would be independent of restarts from my Containers or even the host.
**Edit: It IS on the Recommended list, I just got confused because it is not listed on the USB section, but under Other :-)
To be honest, I might have mixed something up reading up on all those standards. After researching a topic, my browser usually ends up having a hundred Tabs "just in case I need that information again" and honestly... in all that information I can not find it specifically. My consensus reading all that information was: "Make sure for each device you buy that it works with your specific gateway, even if it says it works with protocol X".