There's probably less "worship sky man" than you might think, or maybe it's different to what you'd expect, never having experienced it.
Some churches have very little "woo". There's no miracles or weird stuff. Other churches have all the woo. Like faith healing and talking in tongues and whatever.
A sunday service is usually 30 minutes of singing and housekeeping type notices and whatever, then a 30 minute talk from someone.
Other social things are kind of special interest meetings. So a church might have several friday evening groups for kids, then teenagers, then 18 to early 20s. These are usually activities like bowling, or fishing, or parlour games, or whatever fun activity the leader can dream up.
There's also bible study groups, music groups or bands, community outreach groups like catering for elderly people or young families, there's one here with a community garden.
I went to church with my parents until I was about 18. When I stopped I said it was an ideological thing (as in I no longer believed in fairy tales). That remains true but I think the reason I stopped going was because I just didn't fit in socially. I just wasn't equipped for that type of social community with no drugs or alcohol or special interest to lubricate the wheels.
This is the answer.
Getting the inspector to take a look isn't an accusation, it's just to confirm that everything is as it seems.