IMO ask people you know to tell you how you honestly come across. Yeah they like you and won't want to hurt you but as long as they aren't completely blowing smoke, you should get enough hint of anything glaring. The little things they sweep under the rug are probably nothing to really worry about.
Its lidarr not linarr, and yes. However lidarr is build to get entire releases at once (eg. Entire albums or single releases) and not individual songs.
I guess I don't see it because the posts are deleted. Ultimately I think people should be able to delete their own posts, so I think you have to try to make it part of the rules or etiquette that the community enforces
Ok but then what's the point of space travel??