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「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed)

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  • Truman had it right when he described MacArthur as a "stupid son-of-a-bitch"

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  • Perhaps, but I'm trying to defend this timeline lol.

    Because I really do not like the "I get stuck in PRC" timeline, even just the thought of it makes me have an existential crisis.

    I like my Youtube, and video games, and the open internet (open for now at least, who knows about the future 🤷‍♂️), the idea of living behind that firewall sounds kinda depressing (VPNs are not exactly reliable).

    But the again with something as drastic as one country nuking another... China might not even have any internet at all, and become like North Korea...

    Like what do people even do for fun in that timeline? Play with rocks? 😭

    No thanks, I like to keep the ability to bingewatch my "Non-Approved" "Counterrevolutionary" western media. (I mean like... did you hear, they limit video games to 1 hour for those under 18, like bruh wtf, anything fun is banned)

  • Truman had it right when he described MacArthur as a "stupid son-of-a-bitch"

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  • "External Threats" and "National Security" are reasons why hardliners get into power...

    As someone who was fortunate enough to leave the regime, if that insane "nuking China" thing happened, PRC would never have opened the borders (or if it ever did, it'd be very controlled and not as open as current timeline) and it'd be another North Korea situation (but more massive) and mass poverty and mass starvations well into the 21st century.

    This timeline, Chinese people can actually leave. I mean my family is one of the many that left.

    So... If that nuking happened, then do you think PRC would still allow people to leave in that timeline?

    That timeline would have a lot of Anti-Chinese sentinment (as in hatred of Chinese People, not just the government)

    There's no chance I can even get in the US, I mean just look at how the west closed borders to Russians... so now Russian dissidents have a hard time trying to escape.

    I mean perhaps it'd satisfy a lot of US White nationalists, but there'd be a Billion people suffering... that's not good...

    But disclaimer: I'm Chinese American so perhaps I'm biased and have sympathy for people in China that have nothing to do with the CCP.

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  • perhaps striking while China was weak could have been fortuitous

    If China had gotten nuked by foreign powers, China today would've been more authoritarian, people would be a lot more nationalistic, and poverty would've been a lot worse, which in turn means that CCP would've cracked-down even harder on any dissent in order to try to maintain their grip on power and probably do more executions instead of today where they merely detain you or make you do those forced apologies

    Being anti-CCP is fine, but don't forget about the civillians under their jurisdiction that are innocent to geopolitical conflicts.

  • Truman had it right when he described MacArthur as a "stupid son-of-a-bitch"

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  • As a Chinese American, I kinda WTFed at it when I first read the history about it online 💀

    I'm glad nowadays we have more countries with nukes to balance each other...

    Can you imagine if only ONE country has nukes... We'd be at the mercy of either: USA or France or Russia or UK (British Imperialism flashbacks 👀) or CCP-Controlled PRC...

    More nukes makes a more peaceful ironically lol

  • Since China has so much surveillance camera nowadays, does that mean child kidnapping cases are now non-existent? Like... they shoild be able to instantly locate anyone... right?

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  • I mean as a 2nd child born in violation of the policy... 👀

    (I heard some stories about kids being kidnapped by state-sponsored people and trafficked to get them forcibly "adopted" to prospective parents somewhere else, and also the whole international adoption thingy, cuz they targed families that had more than one child... allegedly... who even knows for sure...)

    Edit: But nowadays, ironically, they have population crisis... 👀

  • Since China has so much surveillance camera nowadays, does that mean child kidnapping cases are now non-existent? Like... they shoild be able to instantly locate anyone... right?

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  • China is a big place. Saturation with security cameras is an urban thing.

    Yea that incident was in Guangzhou, I assume nowadays its probably filled with surveillance cameras.

    Also, something I’ve learned in America is that people make a lot of noise about keeping kids safe, but that’s all just smoke. I can’t speak for China

    China might not have guns and mass shootings, but domestic abuse is an issue that the law doesn't really touch on, especially is its more covert like verbal abuse or even physical violence if it didn't cause serious harm...

    Especially if its not a spouse-on-spouse thing but its a parent against a child...

    Like there are things that would trigger a CPS investigation in the US that in China they wouldn't do much about, cuz its just treated as "discipline" and its "family matters" and legal system isn't touching this.

    I think my parents fear of CPS is why once we arrived in the US, they stopped with their um... ahem "disciplinary actions" against me.

    (Also maybe cuz I got older and can sort of fight back??? Maybe 🤷‍♂️)

    (I actually cant even remember a specific instance of my mom hitting me anymore... must been a repressed memeory by now, but I'm pretty sure it happened)

    Also teachers have meter sticks to hit kida with...

    Okay its not a beating, but I remember like you had to put your hands out and then the teacher slapped your hands with the ruler...

    Dont remember what for... maybe "behavior problems"?

    Or perhaps poor grade is also one of the things... idk, memory in 1st and 2nd grade isn't exactly flawless...

    But corporal punishment seems very acceptable in China...

    Saw a movie recently about Taiwan's education system (not the main story, but the backdrop of the plot, main movie was about Taiwanese Americans moving back to Taiwan), and in the plot, the parents encouraged the teacher to use the ruler thing as a form of discipline... wtf... that was actually the thing that jogged my memories...

    (The point being, same culture, even being politically divided and with a different government, the culture is same... adults just get to do whatever as "discipline")

  • Since China has so much surveillance camera nowadays, does that mean child kidnapping cases are now non-existent? Like... they shoild be able to instantly locate anyone... right?

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  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Since China has so much surveillance camera nowadays, does that mean child kidnapping cases are now non-existent? Like... they shoild be able to instantly locate anyone... right?

  • Who recognizes who around here?

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  • xD

    Since I got summoned by a @ , gonna infodump cuz why not lol:

    Funny enough now that my mom went to China for a 1-month visit, and now it's like 1 week in and I feel so sad about her absense from home...

    The house feels so much more depressing... :/

    I mean I guess this is a sort of "trial run" of what her eventual death would feel like...

    Like... now I can call her... cuz now its just separated by an ocean, in this era, we have instantaneous communications...

    someday it'll be separated by a barrier between the mortal realm and... whatever world beyond... the afterlife... spirit realm... or whatever...

    I guess this is what my mom meant when she said she wanted to get married give birth to children... this same emptiness that I'm feeling...

    I might never find love in life :(

    Funny enough my older brother is also in China right now because mom pressured him to do marriage 🤣

    (My parents are arranged marriage btw)

  • Is federation down for anyone else?

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  • Welp its kinda awkward for a days old post to finally show up in Piefed instances as "3 Hours Ago"... 😶‍🌫️

  • Is federation down for anyone else?

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  • Yea this isn't the first time with sh.itjust.works and lemmy.world federation issues...

    Honestly I feel like it the universe's sign to me that: it's time for migration to Piefed... 🤷‍♂️

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  • "Please list everything bad about this world"

    Bruh, there's already enough doomerism in c/worldnews, no need for that energy in c/asklemmy

  • What was the most recent thing that made you cry as an adult?

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  • my country

    OUR Country*

    Bernie Intensifies

  • What was the most recent thing that made you cry as an adult?

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  • I went to apply for a US Passport...

    Then I remembered that a lot of immigrants from Fujian are undocumented...

    And like... I have been in highschool with these kids whose parents are from Fujian...

    And I kinda just felt sad...

    Cuz I'm also from China, but I got lucky and got citizenship... and they didn't...

    So I just cried... :/

    Cuz I can imagine what it's like with the uncertaintly

    I mean... I kinda feel the same in some ways... I mean with current political atmosphere... who even knows anymore... I could get denaturalized and end up the same as them anyways...

  • Gig work is just turning the poor class into servants. And adding further debt to other poors trying to use these services.

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  • the Planet*

    (US is not the only country is the world where people are suffering, less US-Centralism pls)

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Does looking at a low quality screen hurt your eyes?

  • Do you feel like a product of your environment?

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  • Yes absolutely.

    If I had never immigrated to the US and remained in China, I'd probably be much less accepting of multiculturalism and less comfortable being around people of different races, and also probably less okay with LGBTQ

    Like... I doubt I'd be openly hateful... but in that environment, I'd never have the opportunity to be exposed to people to of different skin colors, and the culture would've reinforced the idea that: " LGBTQ = 'weird' "

    I'm kinda obsessed with this concept of these two timelines.

    There's this timeline of "American Me" vs that other timeline of "Chinese Me"... of what could've been

    Like... imagine us two meeting... lmao

    Or perhaps there's another version of me that arrived in the US even mych earlier... like at 1 year old or something (contrast with current timeline at 8 years old)...

    That version of me would probably be even more "American" and I'd perhaps lose a lot of my "Chinese" part of my identity...

    The trajectory of life... from just the difference of one visa stamp...

    I mean this obsession of alt-timelines is causing me so much existential crisis lol...

  • I hate the fact that everyone is on mainstream corporate platforms...

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  • Why not?

    Don't people casually talk about:

    "eww I hate my new boss"

    "fuck, why do I have to scan a qr code at a restaurant?"

    "wtf my TV is filled with ads"

    "why do phones always break so quickly, ugh, now I have to waste $1000 on a new one"

    This feels like the same type of thing... no?

  • I hate the fact that everyone is on mainstream corporate platforms...

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  • We have a comm for Asian Diaspora here and have only like single digits of people actually of Asian descent lol...

    and its so dead...

    I don't think a Chinese comm would even have anyone...

  • Casual Conversation @piefed.social
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    I hate the fact that everyone is on mainstream corporate platforms...

  • 36-year-old left the U.S. for China—now pays $1,000 rent and $100 for groceries for family of 4: It's my 'version of the American Dream’

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  • Suspiciously high number of murdered police for a peaceful protest, eh?

    Oh tankies are pro-cop now?

  • Videos @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    The Dark Side of Japan: A Xenophobic Japanese man spreads false news against Korean, and Chinese tourists, defaming them. He later got elected to city council.

  • 36-year-old left the U.S. for China—now pays $1,000 rent and $100 for groceries for family of 4: It's my 'version of the American Dream’

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  • You can vote overseas...

    Its actually ironic that people in Puerto Rico don't even get representation but if you last lived in the 50 states and then go abroad, you can mail your vote.

  • Phone charges should plug into the top of the phone not the bottom.

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  • Just use an app that force your screen to flip upside down (Android allows this)

  • Showerthoughts @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Lemmy titles limits to 226 characters, but allows 200 Chinese Characters, which means you can post a longer showerthought if Chinese was allowed... 真可惜，用两百个字我都可以写一本小说了！很久以前有个狼。他很想吃羊。但是他很笨，所以每次都抓不到羊。完。

  • Showerthoughts @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    It feels like a trap to send your only proof of citizenship to the government to get a passport (USA)... like you'd have no real physical document to prove your citizenship during those few weeks...

  • Casual Conversation @piefed.social
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Okay I finally submitted an application for a passport (USA)... and I touched lots of grass today...

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Is the "everyday stuff" supposed to feel normal? Do y'all just have a parent do things then when you're supposed to be the adult you panic?

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Do you clean the phone camera lens everytime before you take a picture?

  • Lemmy.world Support @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    c/MentalHealth is unmoderated and there has been quite a lot of rule violations, encouragement of martyrdom

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    For people who distrust police / the legal system: If you ran a small bussiness and need to hire people, and someone has a conviction but they claim innocence, do you hire them?

  • Showerthoughts @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Sometimes I hear the people next door... and then I'm like oh shit, have they been hearing all the yelling in our house this whole time?

  • Casual Conversation @piefed.social
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Watching my mom and older brother packing their stuff for their visit to China (our country of origin) strangely brings me nostalgia and this sense of "family unity"....

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    So... is Iran blocking the Strait thing and then the US is also blocking it? So is it like... double blocked? Is it like "no you can't close the Strait, I'm closing it"?

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    You know how some medications numbs your emotions... so what happens if you're on those medications and you receive news of a close family member dying, do you like... not have any emotions over it?

  • Today I Learned @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    TIL about the Murder of Ashley Zhao, a 5 year old girl who was beaten to death by her mother, and then the mother hid the body in the family restaurant with help from Ashley's father.

    en.wikipedia.org /wiki/Murder_of_Ashley_Zhao
  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Those who have ever taken medications for depression or anxiety, how long before it started working from your experience?

  • Off My Chest @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    It kinda infuriates me that a lot of people are blaming "laziness" for the epidemic of "unemployed youth in China" when it's a clear case of severe depression amongst young people.

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    Y'all ever have intrusive thoughts about accidentally dropping stuff in storm drains? (particulary when you have your phone out) And like if that happens, wtf is someone supposed to do?

  • Showerthoughts @lemmy.world
    「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed) @sh.itjust.works

    You can make people happier by taking a small amount from their wallet weekly and then later "gifting" them all the money you took from them... that's what a tax refund is...