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  • Hey, I agree with you. I'm saying I know for sure that that's exactly how they'll react, and I'm well aware that it's toxic. I've been trying to change their mind for literal years and I'm at the brink of giving up because it's been like smashing my head against a brick titanium wall. All I'm saying is that there are people who I would absolutely not send these comics to because it'd exacerbate their struggles, for as long as they have their current mindset, anyway.

    Yes, this friend has also been diagnosed as autistic and thinks way too binary, and just keeps going back to this all-or-nothing/nuclear mindset despite me doing my best to change that... It's been absolutely aggravating and I think I just need to pull back.

    1. To be fair, the friend I speak of has only been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, not specifically CFS, though I wonder if CFS may be a better fit for them, or could be comorbid.
    2. we all need to pursue the things we can

    My friend would be disgusted by this line of thought and would say, "I already have put more than my all and look where it got me: nowhere. It's clearly better to just not try and suffer more." I've wrestled over and over again over this with them, though I know there are definitely multiple mental disorders and paper-thin skin going on with them as well.

    1. If you read through the comic again I think you'll find that in no way, shape or form is it attempting to say 'don't even bother trying; just give up now.'

    I never said that it is attempting to say that; I said (or implied, sorry) that people like my friend will indubitably (mis)interpret it that way. All I'm saying is that I believe this sort of comic could backfire in an ironically terrible way if it so strongly pushes anti-burnout. It is really quite well-made otherwise, certainly.

    I'm sorry you have to deal with CFS. I can only imagine how tough that must be.

  • We could have an amazingly decentralized messaging platform.

    My good sir, the modern equivalent already exists and is called: https://www.matrix.org/

  • But... that... that's one of the primary selling points of Linux (which is free, as you know): working marvelously on old hardware. You can even install entirely with no desktop if you're an expert in the terminal...

    Well, you're very obviously knowledgeable about what you're doing, so carry on. I just think we don't have to be Amish with private information as long as we're aware of what we're using to access it.

  • No, they didn't answer the question; they only asked it. Gotta see the follow-through. This makes me think of the Palantir articles about how in reality their employees have been annoyed about being painted as bad guys, instead of genuinely questioning themselves.

  • This is alarmingly toxic justification for my chronic-fatigue, disabled friend who insists on never starting anything (as in, applying for one job a month is hard, to give you an idea of the danger of this kind of mindset). Surely there is a balance to be had somewhere, but these comics are for generally normal people with average levels of energy and motivation. This is dangerous content for people who are already unmotivated and near-suicidal.

  • Geez. Well, I suppose it's just slightly better than wanton violence against total strangers since he literally told a worker to "Duck" before shooting and he seemed to not kill anyone. I wonder what will be discovered in the envelopes he left behind.

  • They're pulling juice from a portable power station that's being kept inside the car. The thing is that they'd better have a strong juice-generating build or else the weight of the battery itself quickly nullifies how much benefit it provides.

  • keep in an actual wall calendar in your home.

    There's no need to go so primitive in response; just stick to offline FOSS apps that individuals made with no Internet permissions. F-Droid/Droid-ify has multiple offline period trackers.

    ... Wait, you are on Linux, right?

  • Oh, I'm aware of the single file! I've got a mentor, thanks. It's better than Mint in privacy, which is opt-out by default.

  • Cutie. It is, however, spelled: "Atelier"

  • I think the most ethical would be buying used, no?

  • I'm not sure that there is such a thing as "right scum" to begin with.

  • I'm not sure of how that's relevant because they would just attach the devices to trains and other public transit anyway. To be fair, that would make it harder for tracking, at least, by a little.

  • Thanks, true. Well, a friend actually suggested that I just move to NixOS for ultra privacy; any thoughts?

  • That's it! It's blank after that to the end of the popup...

  • Lemmy @programming.dev

    Could we remove the "Broken communities have been fixed, report any issues to ategon" notice?

  • Privacy @lemmy.ml

    I just moved to TROM Search as my search engine, and wonder how long it'll last

    search.trom.tf
  • Summit @lemmy.world

    How do you show full comment text in your inbox, not just the first line?

  • Buy it for Life @slrpnk.net

    Best water filter?

  • scrcpy @programming.dev

    Someone made a scrcpy GUI via Flutter

    old.reddit.com /comments/1jink9h
  • exchristian @lemmy.one

    Does your family know?

  • Lemmy Apps @lemmy.world

    Is there an app that can mimic multireddits?

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    How is your closet organized?

  • Syncthing @programming.dev

    What's your way to resolve sync conflicts?

  • Play Store Deals @lemmy.ca

    Play Store is offering a $2 discount right now

  • Syncthing @programming.dev

    Does anyone know what Syncthing-Fork's latest version update is for?

    f-droid.org /packages/com.github.catfriend1.syncthingandroid/
  • Thunder App @lemmy.world

    Unedited comments get marked as edited on "submission," despite no changes

  • Thunder App @lemmy.world

    Copying links in comments doesn't close the share panel

  • VR/XR @midwest.social

    Just showed a couple of friends Cybercade and QubeFall and they were hooked

  • Thunder App @lemmy.world

    Comment time should be left of the 3 dots

  • Mobilizon @lemmy.ml

    There's no way to change your group's @ handle, is there?

  • Lemmy.world Support @lemmy.world

    How do you make a community on another instance?

  • SikuliX @programming.dev

    Looking for example scripts to learn

  • exchristian @lemmy.one

    'I Was Wrong': Wikipedia Co-Founder Embraces Bible, Abandons Skepticism

    cbn.com /news/world/i-was-wrong-wikipedia-co-founder-embraces-bible-abandons-skepticism
  • exchristian @lemmy.one

    How does the great void of death not disturb you?