If one isn't taught to value the opinions of others, they'll only have less opportunities to learn.

What one values determines what group one wants to belong to, and how much one values the group impacts how much of the group's values one adopts.

One’s obligation to engage with someone disliked is set by what’s required by the relationships one values.

It makes sense to support whatever system that one knows from experience to support the kind of life one thinks is worthwhile

The acceptable level of cleanliness is basically what you could show to someone you have mutual care for.