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Nefara

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  • Spirit Airlines goes out of business after 34 years, ending operations immediately

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  • I genuinely appreciated being able to do a round trip for under $100 all in including train tickets. Like you I had my own backpack, snacks, water and wore extra clothes. Going to miss those deals.

  • Taste of Addiction 🍺

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  • Moscato is adult grape juice, it's so good

  • What caused the big bang/God? Independent/dependent phenomena discussion.

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  • God is a story just like Narnia is a story. God doesn't want anything of you any more than Aslan does, or Batman, or Gandalf. You can take what strength you want from characters in stories, but that's all that any god has ever been.

    There is no separate "divine" part of you that is "higher" or needs to defeat some "animal" part of you. You are an animal. You are a humble part of a 4+ billion year history of the Earth and one of many living organisms. All that makes you special is that you have more control over your environment than many.

    I think you're right that the Big Bang is a kind of dumb theory, that's entirely based on a relatively flimsy assumption that the speed of light is constant and red shift must mean expansion, but it conveniently allows deists and other spiritual folks to point a finger at some deity or other and so it persists. I am not an expert though and I recognize it might be the best theory we have right now, but again to try to say that a storybook character is real because of it is silly.

  • Obvious choice

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  • If you're in the US it would be worth talking to your town and town's planning board then. It would be up to the town planning board whether or not that was an acceptable use of that specific land in that specific area. A developer would only buy that land if they knew they would get a build permit. You can attend a meeting and there's usually a time slot for a public input session on the agenda and you can bring that up. If you're not in the US I'm not sure how it works but it might be similar.

  • Obvious choice

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  • Very often the fields that those solar panels are covering are land fills or polluted sites that would be unsuitable for any kind of building or agriculture due to contamination. Utility grade solar often seeks out land that is already disturbed and unsuitable for other purposes because it's cheap.

    Covering parking lots with solar panels doesn't make them any less horrible, we should all be aiming towards as little wasted space as possible. Which means no parking lots.

  • [Discussion] What one must-watch anime would you recommend to a newcomer to the medium?

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  • Do you have a link to the map you like?

  • Never found one that works for me

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  • Never found one that works for me

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  • Heads up, they're expensive because they are not mass produced. Almost all corsets made to be everyday garments are specialty items made by very small shops or individuals catering to reenactors and other niche markets.

    However, if you take care of it it should last a decade or more, so if you can afford it it might be a great investment for you.

    I was going to suggest Redthreaded, but it looks like they swapped to only doing patterns just this past December 😞

    Here are some others but I have not purchased from them myself.

    https://www.periodcorsets.com/corsets

    https://www.etsy.com/shop/natalisadesigns

    https://www.etsy.com/shop/AtelierSylphecorsets/

    I know Atelier Sylph has an excellent reputation, their patterns are highly regarded

    https://nemuro-corsets.com/collections/historical

    https://theboudoirkey.com/collections/corsets-all-offers

  • 'If Gas Prices Rise, Then Let It Rise': Trump Says Rising Gas Prices Does Not Concern Him

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  • So where are all the "I did that" stickers on the gas pumps with his face?

  • What are your hot takes on food culture?

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  • I remember the violinist one when that came out, and watched some of the videos. He made terrible choices for songs to play that would be nonsensical unmelodious noise if listened to in a second or two of passing by. If someone on the street just hears a disconnected sequence of unrelated notes they're not going to stop unless they are specifically looking out to be entertained. I'm sure he's an incredible musician but musician and busker are different skills. A good busker can be a mediocre musician but play catchy, immediately compelling or memorable songs that are recognizable and instantly understood, and have a distinctive stage/street presence.

    I was so frustrated by the implication that because he made a pittance that "people don't know good quality" etc. No, he was just terrible at busking. Honestly he was lucky that he pulled even that much doing it for the first time. What do you honestly think is more attention getting, Violin Partita No. 2 in D Minor played by some white dude in a ball cap or a keytar wielding bear playing a cover of Watermelon Sugar with his whole heart and soul?

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  • Jellyfin. Just use that instead of Plex/streaming! Except it keeps using 100% of my server's cpu while idling, and oh wait, you wanted to access it anywhere outside of your LAN? Here's a 10 page document of technical instructions to keep your computer from becoming part of a Russian botnet

  • What "typical female" thing do you dislike?

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  • Yeah same. I seem to have little tolerance for romance as a genre. All the tropes and common plot lines, and relying on it for the central plot just aren't engaging to me. Plus so much of that media glamorizes abuse, and harmful or problematic relationship dynamics. That's not my idea of fantasy. I would rather read a reference guide to ferns.

  • Never found one that works for me

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  • This is the right answer. A good corset distributes the weight to your torso and hips, and keeps things in place and supported without straining your shoulders. I wish there were more modern equivalents of Edwardian corsets that were readily available. There are so many "boudoir" bustiers and gothy or Steampunk or fetish corsets everywhere, but if you want a plain cotton one for everyday underwear there's like maybe three or four specialty online shops or you just have to make one.

  • "Didn't work for Blackwater" Platner flexes on triggered lefties

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  • Geneva Convenience attacks leftists and progressives more than anyone else I see on my feed.

  • What to do with 4yo when we put down the cat?

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  • We just went through this too. I was honest and told him kitty was old and hurting, and that he was going to die and we were going to miss him. I told him to pet him and snuggle him and to say goodbye because he would be gone soon, and we wouldn't see him again. I told him about death being the end of a life but I don't think it entirely sank in. Kiddo asked a few times afterwards where the kitty was, and I reminded him that he died. I got an "oh" and sometimes "I miss [kitty]", to which I respond with "me too" and sharing a happy memory. Definitely explain what is happening.

    On another note, there are services which will come to your house for pet euthanasia. It makes it a much more peaceful experience for the pet, because they are comfortable and relaxed. I highly recommend looking for a local service like that, search "at home pet euthanasia" for your area.

  • Can a 200 dollar laptop play games well enough?

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  • Try a used Dell Precision series from the past 6 years. That should be roughly in that price point and will probably be an old business cast off with either decent integrated graphics or a real graphics card depending on how patient you are about waiting for a good deal. They are solidly made with aluminum cases and made to take a beating. I have a Precision I bought used from 2012 that's still going, and just got another from 2020 for about $230 usd with shipping. Mind you this is a US perspective and I don't know much about international markets.

  • Breadtube is disappointed

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  • Geneva Convenience is basically synonymous with constantly attacking anyone even mildly progressive. Essentially they are so far on the other end of the horseshoe they're doing the same work as the far right.

  • Looking for advice: toddler is hurting her Grandma

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  • Do you know what is prompting the "attacks"? Is grandma doing something that scares her or that she thinks is aggressive? If grandma is going in for a kiss and kiddo doesn't feel comfortable or safe with that she might lash out. Scratching her is unacceptable but I wonder if she thinks it's defensive. You probably can tell the difference between clumsiness and aggression at that age and if it's purposeful then I would talk to grandma about watching for nonverbal cues of nonconsent.

    As far as the scratching, every kid is different, but what worked for our kid was showing that his actions hurt and upset us. At that age, rather than disciplining or doing a time out when he hit me, I tried to show the effect his behavior had on me in his own language. When he hit me, I would do my best impression of what he would do when he was hurt. So basically, I pretended to cry, and if that didn't take I would shy away and avoid his hands. It shocked him to realize he could make the big person sad and upset and he didn't want me to be sad, which led to genuine apologies. I would stop when he did something conciliatory, like say "sorry" in sign language, offer me an object or try to hug or pat me. As he gets older I adapt to his level of sophistication, so now I do things differently, but when he was one to two it seemed to help him conceptualize that we were also humans with feelings.

  • Netflix is raising their prices again. Spotify just raised their prices…

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  • I want to like my jellyfin server but it has a bad habit of using 100% of my CPU while idling, and I still haven't figured out a fix yet

  • YouTube Classics @sh.itjust.works
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    Wintergatan Original Marble Machine

  • ADHD Women @lemmy.world
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    I can always find something to talk to someone about

  • Music @lemmy.world
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    Tina Turner - "You got what you wanted"

  • WomensStuff @piefed.blahaj.zone
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    Nicole Rudolph - Why are Modern High Heels so Bad?

  • YouTube Classics @sh.itjust.works
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    Sail Cat

  • Ice Cream @lemmy.world
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    Addictive and ultra rich peanut butter ice cream

  • Ice Cream @lemmy.world
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    Mango ice cream...

  • Gaming @lemmy.ml
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    They're doing Civ 7 already

  • ADHD Women @lemmy.world
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    What is your "trail of hobbies"?