Not the same thing. If a creep is called out on his behavior, he may escalate. If the owner, likely oblivious, is called out on her dogs behavior, she'll either stop it or continue to ignore it, she's not going to make the dog attack him.
It sounds like you're experiencing some tough emotions and need support. Please delete this and repost at https://lemmy.world/c/dadforaminute. This is specifically a community for women, and I wish you well in your journey, but it is not the right place for this discussion.
Hi, did you notice that you not only completely denied my experience and assumed you knew my life better than me, but you did so on in a community that specifically only allows women and non-binary participation?
I'm temporarily the sole caretaker of a geriatric dog with a leg injury. My sleep schedule is borked. My back and arms are borked from carrying him around. I love that little fuzzy potato.
I don't enjoy the physical activity of painting. I enjoy seeing a picture start to emerge from the marks im making and I enjoy having a finished painting that I know i made.
Right now Im participating in the 100 day challenge by making a small painting every day. Its day 58 and im keeping up with it. I post my results in the artshare community, and even though no one would probably notice if I stopped, it still feels like more accountability.
Eta: check out artprof.org. There's a discord and they offer one on one critiques. Dont know if it will meet your needs.
I think it depends on what the hardship is. If I am actively suffering something temporary (e.g. a stomach ache) it helps to think that I will feel better relatively soon. If im dealing with a long-term stress (chronic back pain) I feel better just focusing on whatever good is going on right now. Im probably reducing this beyond simplicity, but I used to be a very future-oriented person. Now i cant think beyond a month ahead. I just want to live with what I have while I have it.
You may have an intolerance to certain foods. Look up low FODMAP diet. Certain types of food can fermented in the gut and make tou gassy/bloated. Ive found that I dont have an issue with wheat, but switching to lactose-free dairy and avoiding onions has helped me immensely.
He was married to Amanda Palmer who was also a kind of feminist icon. We still don't know for certain if she was aware of Gaiman's actions or even pushed girls to him. Really disappointing because my boyfriend was such a fan of hers. I sang one of her songs at his memorial service a decade ago.