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Very tired nerd who loves to yap
Ask me about floppa, Plan 9, computer architecture, computational logic, anything computers really
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If I don't reply to you it's probably cuz I'm too tired, sorry :(
Email and XMPP: pax@pax.in.net
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Mathematics hexbear.net

1y ago

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago
reason: racial slur
Every time x3

1y ago

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Bonus: measured response under a post about a keyboard lmao

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

I just want some reasonable freedom to say what I want.

What do you want to say?

1y ago

Top admiral says China is outbuilding the US on warships at a shocking rate

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Many experts say they even have an industrial plant that reduces the costs of all their military units and a cloning facility that doubles all the infantry they train, as well as dangerous tesla coil technology and giant squids

1y ago

Toothpaste widely contaminated with lead and other metals, US research finds

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

1y ago

Figma sent a cease-and-desist letter to Lovable over the term 'Dev Mode'

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

1y ago

The myth of consensual peace

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

1915 Lemmy lib: "God the German propaganda on .ml is intense"

The propaganda: Peace pls

Any info I encounter contrary to the interests of my preferred empire must be the work of the dastardly Foreigner. If the other side wanted peace they should simply unconditionally surrender

(skull can barely contain brain of this size)

And if they won't, we Ukrainians must be willing to give up their lives in a total war until victory (which is going well and good and can be expected to end in that outcome)

Russia's terms have been quite clear since the beginning of the war: a neutral, non-West-aligned Ukraine and the official ceding of Crimea and the breakaway republics. Even regardless of how you feel about those issues, how does it benefit you or the average Ukrainian to keep fighting over this? It is such a pointless, devastating loss of life over shit that obviously represents larger geopolitical issues for the West and Russia while Ukraine is turned into a literal wasteland (omg and the Ukrainian side has been financed by massive Western loans

, even if Ukraine "wins" they are gonna be fucked when the creditors come for their repayments after the war which is intentional ofc, will probably result in even more IMF austerity plans and poverty)

Idk, maybe the Ukrainian side could get better terms (they def could have earlier) but they have just refused to actually negotiate (beyond telling the world how "open" they to are it lol) and have taken your total victory position. Ofc there is so much more to say but yeh

Slop. @hexbear.net

PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net

1y ago

(cw: bizarre ?unintentional? transphobia, homicidal misogyny) The Lemmitors are NOT okay tbh

1y ago

Are men as intimate with there friends as girls are?

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Some are, I'm not a man but I have male friends and we're very intimate and close, hug and cuddle each other, express our affection and our emotions openly

Ofc I have had the "bro" type of male friends, where it seems they feel like we can't do that kind of stuff even if we do rly care for each other :(

It's much better in queer and queer-friendly spaces ime

1y ago

I can't believe my eyes

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Idk what tone you meant for that exactly but, asking genuinely, why do you dislike them? I just use cuz they're fun imo and sometimes help clarify meaning of sentences. I do try to be cognizant of where I am on our federated network and avoid using the ones that represent some kind of Hexbear inside joke lol, like those ones don't. I know I'm not alone in using them for those reasons cuz even Reddit supports inline reaction images these days lol. Besides all the social platforms supporting them (mainly cuz people like to use them imo), even Unicode's emoji partly consist of a bunch of assignments for common reaction images lol (although, 🤓, cuz they do have to work in a global context they are usually much more strictly semantically defined and unspecific)

1y ago

I can't believe my eyes

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Will he approve cool dog? I am seeking approval for the cool dog

I have heard from a source on the inside that the cool dog is actually also the woke dog (complimentary, as on

derogatory) as well

1y ago

[Western Liberal/Democrat] (CW slurs, state-sanctioned murder) Vaush gracefully handling his team losing

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

When challenged none of it is, "ahhhh you dumb tankies fell for my

When not challenged all of it is

What part of it actually is? Probably all of it, at least somewhat lol

loves to exist in this space

Strangely,

Never believe that anti-Semites are completely unaware of the absurdity of their replies. They know that their remarks are frivolous, open to challenge. But they are amusing themselves, for it is their adversary who is obliged to use words responsibly, since he believes in words. The anti-Semites have the right to play. They even like to play with discourse for, by giving ridiculous reasons, they discredit the seriousness of their interlocutors. They delight in acting in bad faith, since they seek not to persuade by sound argument but to intimidate and disconcert. If you press them too closely, they will abruptly fall silent, loftily indicating by some phrase that the time for argument is past.

a very familiar space

1y ago

WTF is happening on Hexbear?

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Same here, ty

Had one of our just-unbanned users drop a rly heartfelt reply about how the site helped her realize she was trans and get through some rly bad times in her life and it upset her a lot to see the behavior of some of the admins

It's rly silly drama but the site has legit helped people

Okay I gotta log off fr now, am tired and this is starting to loop back around from upsetting to hilarious lol, bad state to be in for sincere talking and I spend enough energy on this

Edit: Post I mentioned is here if you wanna read: https://hexbear.net/comment/5618885

1y ago

WTF is happening on Hexbear?

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

You're right tbh

It rarely came up and ofc this being Hexbear it's tangled in like 7 layers of irony and sincerity, but the vibe I always got was that "TC69 thought" was beyond criticism and everyone who did have something to say in response was either in the group of transphobe wreckers who got purged by her (based, good (that they got purged)) and anyone left from that time who still remembered it, besides the """"legends"""" about her making everyone read based books, had stopped challenging it cuz of the aforementioned dogpiling

Until today, now it seems TC69 has stepped down again, deleted her account, and her partner has been banned and people are talking about it and criticising her in the YET-ANOTHER megathread

Wild day in niche bear-themed web forum history, the TC69 cult of personality has fallen?

I hope all this shit is entertaining to the Lemmygradians at least lmao

1y ago

WTF is happening on Hexbear?

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

I feel exactly the same way tbh, I can go to a trillion other sites if I wanna do endless

"actually, it's kinda cringe that you care tbh" bits that also aren't a bit where "you win" if you can pretend to be the most cool and detached i'm-not-online-i'm-just-here-to-observe-the-onlineness type person (I am also missing the joke here), I like Hexbear cuz of the sincerity

The misgendering ableist wrecker alts were rly exhausting tbh, especially when it seems like it's someone here doing it who has been banned for the same shit before multiple times but is still allowed to do it (as of now, I'm not in the admin chats so ofc idk for sure)

1y ago

WTF is happening on Hexbear?

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Idk tbh, regardless I feel like they don't have to be contradictory

I come to this site for the shitposts and the genuine discussion and political education resources

I should also mention the proposal post later also had statements from mods who said they proposed the idea cuz they thought "dunk" culture has "cishet white vibes", which...... idk, is maybe fair, Hexbear is rly white sometimes and I would hate for people to be put off by that (good reason to be put off ofc). It wasn't rly elaborated upon though

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

I feel like this is exactly the irony poisoned toxic attitude that has led to this getting so bad :/

I wasn't around during the early days, heard lots of good things about TC69, purging transphobe wreckers and making people read is based :3

But is kinda wild and not a good look that she showed up again one day, the biggest struggle sesh I have ever seen kicks off, Carcosa steps down, half-steps back up, then while they're on break probably cuz of this whole stressful ordeal on this site they steward for us, she becomes head admin(?) again and immediately she and many of the new admins get so deeply involved in an obviously bad-faith way in this struggle sesh to the point of like 20 or 30 people getting bans where even the Lemmygradians are noticing that the site is exploding lol but ohhh this is all a joke ofc :) but it's also not a joke and this site needs to get serious and we need more mega-purges but also reply here and I'll use an RNG to decide how long to ban you, and also other random people with the same reason in the modlog

Now idk anymore, maybe this is what TC69-thought is

1y ago

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

hehehe

Tbh I just ate some decent food (after not rly eating anything for a few days cuz of external factors™ in my kinda bad life-situation rn), pet a cat, read your reply in the struggle sesh megathread, feeling less bad about the whole thing

Really appreciate you genuinely just clarifying what happened including what the rest of the admin team saw, I feel like most of this is just rly bad communication primarily from admins/mods but also the rest of the users (sucked seeing Carcosa's decision get completely torn apart so badly that they tried to resign before the userbase rejected that lol, I hope they not too

about it especially cuz how much they do for our site regardless of this one thing). It's still been a total mess but it's nothing irreconcilable or unfixable

10/10 perfect bad-good-good-bad bit

, I hope your recovery from food poisoning is going well

Long live the cabal :3

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Yeah we ~~probably~~definitely all need to relax lol, regardless there is def criticism to be made about this whole behind-the-scenes adminning thing that developed after our chaotic first year needing to..... idk... have more democracy again? After this whole thing especially

I just saw a bunch of people get unbanned now so idk, hard to keep track of it all

I'm gonna go, like....... make a meal and do and think about something other than niche web forum drama now lol

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

The issue wasn't the name change, everyone was fine with that and it should be done cuz the term has a racist history

The proposal that started all this was removing "/c/the_dunk_tank" (where you can post bad takes and mock them however you like but they can't be the bad takes of nobodies, so basically like shit_reactionaries_say) and "/c/the_dredge_tank" (for posting the bad takes of anyone, this was made after people got tired of seeing the lowest effort, repetitive, bad takes from random people so they could block the comm if they want) entirely and replacing them with "/c/counterpropaganda" (for posting instances of any reactionary rhetoric under the conditions that your post also had to include an essay countering the rhetoric) and "/c/gossip" (for posting only public figures' bad takes, without the essay), the arguments for and against are in the 1200 reply struggle sesh post lol

Sry if you already know all this, I'm not sure how visible this has been to other instances lol

Idk, I get the intention behind it but it became clear this was poorly thought out and was not what most of the userbase (or the most active?) wanted. In the past certain issues like this have been resolved by purges (like our mandatory pronouns and anti-transphobia and anti-misogyny stances) of anyone who disagreed or couldn't self-crit but this one does seem much more aimless and less concrete to me, to the extent it is even serious, tbh, idk :/

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WTF is happening on Hexbear?

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PaX [comrade/them, they/them] @hexbear.net 1y ago

Late-stage irony poisoning

In addition to the first ban wave which was partially a bit or something cuz people requested to be banned so TC69 used a random number generator but also entries in the modlog that have the RNG stuff weren't people who requested it??, some of our admins are now banning their alts as a bit to start drama, other obvious alts are coming out to call it out and continue more drama, there's more but...... you get the idea :/

Idk, this all started in an attempt to make our site more serious by replacing the_{dunk,dredge}_tank with higher effort alternatives and now that that didn't go through it's all a joke now

Honestly I may log off for a while too, is not rly that funny to me :/ People on this site have literally fed me and my friend, kept us out of overdraft status on bank accts, I learned so much from reading stuff here or books I learned about from here, people have been housed cuz of this site, someone nearby legit offered to take care of one of my irl friend's pets when he was homeless for a bit, I met new friends here that I talk to every day. It's not a political party but it's not just a giant shitpost either, so idk where this is going :/

I'm sure this looks even worse from the outside

, but it's okay, site has survived worse

Like FuckyWucky mentioned, there is a lot of talking going on behind the scenes and no one outside rly knows what is going on sooooo..... we see what happens I guess