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TurkeyDurkey

@ TurkeyDurkey @piefed.world

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  • google voice

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  • You can always port it to another VOIP service. I highly recommend JMP.chat. I use it for my work number and personal number. Easy to disable accounts or mute the apps.

  • I wrote a blog post on selfhostesd software to be more organized

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  • While I do agree that the automation is what makes it best over others, an onion I have seen expressed online is how there is no encryption of the documents in server. I guess you can only use paperless-ngx to hold a bunch of documents on a small air-gapped device, much like storing hundreds or more papers in a box somewhere. Though in my personal onion, the files should be encrypted on the server if it's ever meant at all to be hosted on one.

  • Get. Out

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  • Filth-ridden wireborn

  • bring your cool friends here :D

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  • It honestly first did feel like that when I started.

  • bring your cool friends here :D

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  • When you ask them to do this, the next question will be "why?" and I don't know another way to answer that.

    I like to take advantage of the increase in privacy awareness and how the current administration is behaving (United States). People have definetly seen and understand more about the abuse big tech does to us. But I still keep it in laymen terms.

    Stuff like:

    "It's just WhatsApp but actually private" I guess has been what I've started saying initially.

    I find using platforms owned by people who support the current administration rather immoral. So I think I play into that a bit.

    Best to not be nervous at all and act like it's a normal thing. That's how people come around. While most people might use WhatsApp or Instagram, you can convince them that it's something regular. I mean like, what's another app on their phone?

    Something I do admit is with some people I had to loop back around after some time. But they came to join me on Jabber eventually.

    A couple of my friends who are mostly non-techie users have been collaborating with me on how to promote this secure nerd technical stuff.

    So it sounds like you probably never speak to those people again.

    Even though my city is big, I do run into the same people again in the same industry. I'm not out there a lot partying or hanging with strangers, so I guess I just foster relationships and branch off from there with friends of friends.

    I did succumb once and made a LinkedIn for certain business contacts. But most business people are older and take my email pretty easily.

    Like I'm not out there getting random people to join this strange nerd platform. But I make it easier for them to accept it.

    I went through almost all the "private and secure communication" apps and services, trying to figure out the best one. I know SimpleX is getting popular, but for me XMPP/Jabber has ticked the boxes. And I try to make it easier to use and understand.

    Still figuring out more efficient ways to promote privacy rights and good practices, but I'm getting there fairly smoothly.

    EDIT: And again, I'm not able to get everyone. But people come around.

  • bring your cool friends here :D

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  • It's of course best to avoid ranting about stuff that will make you sound like a conspiracy nut. If that isn't obvious enough.

    People you just meet... From what people my age tell me is that even they don't like giving out their phone numbers. They tend to only share their Instagram. And when somebody asks for that instead of my number, I've gotten comfortable enough to tell them I don't use that stuff. Sometimes I joke and say I'll give you my email. Most take it.

    I absolutely hate phone numbers. For technical reasons. Maybe that's how I feel so willing to only contact people through email or XMPP/Jabber.

    And for people I just met, I don't like giving out too much information anyways. 😆

    I guess I just happened to find the right community where the network effect runs well. Outside of my main community it starts with email.

    People who join me on my preferred platform are the ones that I can better prioritize attention to.

    By the way, what is your preferred platform for private communication?

  • bring your cool friends here :D

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  • I think the few special people are fine (for now). Although I know both of us wish for our closest relationships to use what we prefer. I got mine to, but I know it can be hard.

    I only have a phone number for my boss.

    Maybe I'm just really social. But I still feel like if they're good relationships, they will understand. And you probably already see them a bunch, maybe everyday.

  • bring your cool friends here :D

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  • It took a little while to figure it out. It doesn't have to be everyone. Like you don't have to get every person you know to switch. But make it clear that if somebody wants to contact you remotely, then that platform (for me Jabber) will be the only way. Besides email. If they decide not to join you, then they don't want to contact you and they'll probably hardly message.

    If somebody legitimately wants to contact you and wants to associate with you (be your friend), they will install an app. Just make sure the onboarding process is as simple as an air fryer. Don't be a shy nerd about it either.

    EDIT: and yeah I agree nobody cares too much about privacy - all they really care about is reaching out to someone - but all my contacts know how much I care about privacy

  • Weather App of Choice?

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  • Didn't a bunch lose funding and shutdown? I forgot

  • Your ring camera is being used to abduct your neighbors

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  • Give me like 2-3 months.

  • A new look for Snikket on Android

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  • This is what I needed to see! Tops my amazing day!

  • Musk’s AI tool Grok will be integrated into Pentagon networks, Hegseth says

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  • It's not like constantly training or like remembering everything everyone else says, right? It's not some consciousness in a server, just a model to run when someone asks for it.

  • Advertiser friendly

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  • That kind of gives me an idea

    What if to get a verified badge, it's multiple users paying for it for you to have. Like fans and stuff. This has some faults of course, but I'm sure the base idea could be worked with one way or another.

    Side note: Why are people still using Xitter?? 😭

  • With New Year's a couple days away what selfhoted party games do people have going?

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  • Fixed now! Thanks.

  • With New Year's a couple days away what selfhoted party games do people have going?

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  • Awesome. Just trying it out on my phone.

    Would like an option for the timer to run for us, if that isn't supposed to happen. The first two games only have a "1:00" displayed the whole time.

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  • If you could give Mobilizon a try, I'd be interested in hearing your experience.

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    Woman hospitalized after Pluribus ad on smart fridge triggers psychotic episode - Dexerto

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  • People don't mention LineageOS enough. And then when someone says Graphene is available, some duck says it's only available on Pixels.

    LineageOS is great for degoogling, as far as I know. I've loved Lineage the past year and a half. But have been trying out Graphene this past week.

  • Finally setup Nepenthes and caught my first bot

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  • I need this

  • Gift Ideas for Privacy People

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  • I was thinking about your last post earlier today!

  • Books @lemmy.world
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    FREE 1984 The Family Webster Encyclopedia

  • Privacy @lemmy.ml
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    Why Signal over Jabber/XMPP?

  • Linux @lemmy.ml
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    Plan for Windows 10 EOL and discounted old laptops

  • Linux @lemmy.ml
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    Printers for Linux

  • Selfhosted @lemmy.world
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    Data Backup Solutions

  • Meshtastic @mander.xyz
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    Pet Collar and Object Tracking

  • Linux @programming.dev
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    Tablet (w/ stylus) suggestions for Linux