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1)How many years did you work there? 2)How old were you when you started? 3)Are there any benefits long term?
God i never thought i would make it to 18, let alone 22. i was a pessimistic kid even before leaving Islam and always expected the worst to happen. I feel like i got better since i stopped treating every possibility as a 50/50 chace even if i didn't know the actually probability
sorry just edited, meant wlw as women loving women
pay grade aside, do you mean that it fills that you as a man must pay the full bill
i am leaving this comments since your getting higher down vote ratio without an explanation for why
Infinitely for lemmy on phone, Default on PC. there have been images that didn't load before on Vovager when i using. the biggest problem for me is video, i havent tried video on deafult but both vovager and Infinitely crash the second i click on a video
i know all of them except the one with trans flag and the girl next to her
Also, man i wish there were as many mlm couples as wlw
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It took me three tried to read your entire comment, but I did it
yea thats my fault, given the subject at hand. Ironically, i wanted to write more but got crambs so i had to stop. The take away here, is that its a complicated issue and to go easy on yourself, we are all in this together.
One more thing, actually two. Another contributing factor can be ADHD too, maybe thats something you would wanna look into, which lets to my other point, I have ADHD and MDD(Maladaptive daydreaming disorder, which insnt yet official). Iam not officially diagnosed with either due to financial reasons,the state of psychology in my country and other stuff. But i have know for a few years now and mostly made peace with it.
I am never gonna drive a car, noone in life acceptance this or doesn't take me seriously, but i made my decision. I am a danger to myself and other. I daydream in the bus, alot of the times in the middle of walking in a rood, thankfully nothing happened but i take precautions now and one of them is not driving
I am not saying you should give up driving if you want to drive, but to set boundaries for yourself and others, for example when going on an important trip even if its 10 min bus, i will take a taxi its less stressful for me, having to try to keep my attention on the stops. Little stuff like that can help
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To begin with, its a complicated abd controversial problem
The biggest factor being overlooked with this is distraction. Mostly electronics but also real life.
At any given point in the day, in where in country, you will likely see ads, be that posters or gaint screens or branded cars or building, shop names which functions more or less like ads. There is also traffic, especially the noise plus crowds. There ppl trying to sell you stuff or ppl shouting.fireworks, Loud ear bleeding muisc both from cars and shops or just in the middle of the street. You get the idea
For phones and such, they are design to be addicting. The notification are the obvious, but also the nice colors, smoothness of it all. The fact you would need it for daily life, shopping, calls, texting, maps. The fact that they now function as a 6th limb. How most apps are designed for endless scrolling. You could also agonize over the perfect productivity or perfect app for anything and spend hours then days on trying diffrent apps, most of the time in the different rotation of the same apps.
Stress from daily life can be a cause but most often than not its boredom. Taking your phone out and using it is both convenient and very accessible, so it becomes second nature. Doom scrolling can also play a part. everyone else using them all the time, also has an effect
pedaling back, firstly, experts criticize the idea of an average attention span. Different activities require or incentives different levels of attentio. Works will differ from say watching a 3 hour video or doing chores or watching a movie. Secondary, there are any actually evidence on account of their being no studies on it, probably due the mentioned variables.
Ultimately, i can't suggest what to do for your phones out of -Get a dumb phone for when your out of the house -Turn off notifications for unnecessary apps -Try grey scale -Minimize the number of apps you use -Join a group irl or online, preferably irl -Do activities -Think about how you are using you phone. There are apps there that asks you for a reason for say opening Twitter that you wite then. Reducing time spent is also another way
those are based on assumptions about you on my part. Maybe you pay using you phone or have to use it at work. i dont know
But i think that a better narrative is that the world around you is working against your Attention. There are literally course in marketing called hijacking attention spans. Its best not to beat yourself up and its not only you experiencing this.
P.S: i got a lot of my points from this video, especially the one about companies working against our attention
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDfeOvUZ7Kk by book leo on a YT
Your username seems to agree?
8 months late but
this can be interpreted in two ways
him calling out which, and the ppl around hear witch
or her knowing how to count saying something like the second to your left
Come on, the six infinity stones where right there
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hey
didnt think i would encounter another moth in the wild.
How long have you been play?
23 days for me
P.S: it is so god damm annyoying so but what makes it worse is you have to choice between cosmetics and making friends
I will also add Yu-gi o
i played for 2 days then quite. You could only take so much beating as beginner before you give up. its feels like the game punishs you for playing PVP before spending 30,000 in solo.
The best example of this, is a player with all of his monsters at 0 Attack/0 Defense but any attack i do is redirected at me and i cant choice to not to attack due to card effects. Any spells/traps i use are negated by his cards. So i was just stuck there
even the ranked matchs arent any better, the whole game feels unbalanced
god, same. Kind of ironic
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How do religious selfish people respond when their pleas for material help are met with metaphorical help rich in thought and prayer?
I live in Muslim majority thats is impoverished. A large part of islam comes in the form of promises for the after life. when i was still question my faith, a line my mom would use to convince and herself out of doubt was that Western countries who are mainly non-Muslim are rich while Majority Muslim are poor therefore we are the victims and thus are in the right.
Leaving out the fact that alot of Muslims countries are rich then most of the world, it falls into the narrative of this all of being an ultimately test. Add that fact that prayer are really a coin. it means most don't expect prayers to work im the first
but also depends on what you mean by selfish. i would say my cousin is selfish since he spends most of his parents money on himself with no regard for thier financial situation to point where they have to hid the money from him, yet is more regions than your average Muslim
i will get back to you when i can think of one
I think he mean the rich in general
Do moobs count?
Rain for me is just overstimulating, also have phobia of spots. There is a Nestle nescaffe called cramla that just the texture of it when you pour the water making thousands of tiny bubbles causes me extreme nausea and i feel like i am about to vomit