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did_you_find_violets

@ did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

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  • Do you block accounts that post with very high frequency?

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  • considering this is coming from someone who stalked my post history just to reply to a comment from almost a week ago because a post of mine (from yesterday, no less) triggered them so much, and who also felt the need to announce they’d blocked Lemmy’s womensstuff community (https://discuss.tchncs.de/comment/25340974), I’d say: good riddance. 🫶

  • i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation

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  • we're on a boat which is an ideal location to be perpetually nude (sunbathing, swimming, no need to go anywhere else, etc.)

  • make it make sense

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  • make it make sense

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  • thank you for coming to my aid in that "girls get made fun of for everything might as well do what you want lol" debacle💖

  • WomensStuff @piefed.blahaj.zone
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    make it make sense

  • i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation

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  • and don’t even get me started on the “mark this as NSFW, please” police patrolling around here, lmao. (the tamest post you can imagine.)

  • i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation

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  • oh, i’ve always found it kind of funny, actually.

    the fediverse/lemmy have a very progressive demographic, but they can also be surprisingly prudish when it comes to anything sex-related, especially when it’s coming from a female perspective.

    after being on here for months, i’ve somehow been branded as “the horny poster,” even though most of my posts aren’t explicitly horny or freaky. they’re more observational, almost diaristic, in the way they approach these kinds of topics. for example, i don’t find this post horny or freaky at all.

  • i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation

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  • just casual nudity

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    excuse me?

  • Do you block accounts that post with very high frequency?

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  • i wonder how many people have blocked me so far…

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    stay hydrated🙏

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    freedom💖

  • buttplug only comes out for pooping, cleaning, relubing, and action🫶

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  • long term, no

    frequent dedicated days for it, yes😌

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    buttplug only comes out for pooping, cleaning, relubing, and action🫶

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    modest fashion is the best💖

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    perplexing

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    my fling and I are opposites but very compatible

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  • it’s a troll account (check their post history, their modus operandi is saying outlandish ragebait, they have a comment that goes “if you pay taxes in the US you’re a genocidal maniac” for example). don’t engage or give them any attention, report and move on.

  • Locked

    my fling and I are opposites but very compatible

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  • yeah, he’s in his 50s

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world
    Locked

    my fling and I are opposites but very compatible

  • AC is off in this house at my request🤠

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  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    AC is off in this house at my request🤠

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    what are the recruiters recruiting me for😰

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    don’t even know what date or day of the week it is these days

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    absolutely everything is meaningless so just do what you want

  • oh i’m definitely imagining it🥵

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  • my fling told me that, in his five decades of life, I'm the first person to ever lick his pits🤠

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    oh i’m definitely imagining it🥵

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    manifestation

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    💖💖💖

  • Locked

    he might be using me to fulfill his younger woman fantasy, but I’m also using him to fulfill my daddy fantasy, so we’re even

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  • I actually thought about this. I don't think when I'm 50 I'll be into older men anymore, since what I consider “older men” now would either be around my age or just old-old men, lmao.

  • What's one highly extolled piece of media that you absolutely cannot stand in any way shape or form.

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  • Succession for me. I couldn’t stand it. The acting always felt way too self-conscious, like “look at me acting my ass off” instead of anything natural. The dialogue and humor felt really try-hard too, and I hated the cinematography, especially all those weird close-up shots.

  • mindset

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  • fem guys already relate to content targeted toward women since their lived experience is closer to that than to the typical man, so no exclusion.

    men often do this. post is about something women related -> "but what about the men?". we don't have a duty or obligation to include men in every single conversation. men can also create their own content/conversations, and they should. hijacking/inserting themselves just reeks of insecurity and misogyny.

    edit and just to be clear: anyone who finds this post relatable is more than valid and welcome, regardless of gender. it’s just the act of explicitly turning it into a “won’t somebody please think of the men?” thing that really grinds my gears.

  • mindset

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    1. the experiences of boys and girls in society aren't comparable.

    2. this post is about girls, going "but what about the boys?" on it is just misogyny.

  • mindset

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  • cause traditionally/stereotypically feminine things are seen as stupid, useless, and cringe while masculine ones are seen as serious, deep, and respectable.

    trans people also show that being a man is seen as an "upgrade" while being a woman a "downgrade" (trans men don't get a fraction of the hate trans women do). same thing with tomboys-femboys.

    plus, a man and woman could do the exact same thing (being assertive for example) & the perception will be different (woman - bitch, man - boss).

  • What’s your favorite pastime/activity at the moment?

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  • birdwatching is awesome