I am a time-traveling dolphin. An entity made of giant balls gave me the ability to breathe underwater, but this ability was recently stolen from me by aliens.
Sometimes I turn into a bird.
I am a time-traveling dolphin. An entity made of giant balls gave me the ability to breathe underwater, but this ability was recently stolen from me by aliens.
Sometimes I turn into a bird.
Your family members are complete, whole individuals with their own autonomy. If they don't want your advice you can't force them to hear it, even if its helpful. If you pursue them with it you'll push them away. From what you have written it seems you are violating these boundaries.
You must find a way to let go of the bitterness in yourself. It is a weight. You cannot erase the abuses you have suffered but you must be the one that heals. Easier said than done, I know. It doesn't mean you're obligated to forgive anyone. Therepy is helpful.