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meneervana

@ meneervana @lemm.ee

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  • I think many women just do not know it exists or do not know about the risks of using other apps

  • What shitty stuff did you discovered when you became adult?

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  • How many mundane things you have to do just to stay alive and well. Skipping things means more problems down the road. Every few years your energy capacity just lowers by 50% and you will never get it back. People often don't follow their own advice. Most people will never change because they won't want to challenge their own beliefs about themselves. Most people have rigid beliefs about the world because of the same reason.

  • What's your favourite classic movie you think everyone should have seen once in their life?

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  • It's from 1999 so It's 26 years old I think

  • Gemeenschap om Nederlands te oefenen?

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  • Ik denk dat deze nog het meest actief is, ik weet dat ze wel zo'n community hebben op reddit maarja dat gaan we niet doen natuurlijk

  • Grimes pic

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  • Yeah basically

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    Grimes pic

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    Grimes pic

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    Grimes (old)

  • What's your favourite classic movie you think everyone should have seen once in their life?

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    • The matrix
    • Inception
    • The big lebowski
    • Trainspotting
    • Edward scissorhands
    • Lord of the rings (all three)
    • scream

  • What is something non-standard that you take with you when you travel?

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  • Salt. I really, really enjoy salt on my fries. I have a few paper bags of salt in my purse at all times, so when I get a bag of take away fries and they forgot to put salt on it (which happens a LOT where I live) I can add my own salt! Saved me from disappointment many times.

  • What hyped thing did you fall for that you now regret and have to live with?

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  • Yup. I own a few of them and they all are falling apart basically

  • Can you draw what she was holding?

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  • This one is gold

  • meow_irl

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  • He's self aware

  • is "oh boy" considered a gendered term?

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  • Leftover Halloween candy 🍬

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  • Yess kitler ❤️

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  • I do not believe the kind of mentality that you can make anything out of any situation with your mindset or things like that, for example that idea that if you are just super positive and hard working life will just give you sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes you are dealt a very bad hand and you can't win the game. It's more like the quote "what doesn't kill you makes you wish it did" However, the quote in post from OP doesn't imply that you can just wield any circumstance your way. It just says that you only have control over how you react to it, which is true. Example: I got laid off at my job last week. I felt upset and very sad. My instinct reaction is to go retreat in my shell and not do any of my responsibilities because I feel depressed, sad and angry. But that will only give me more shit in the future. Instead I went to my other job, met friends, and tried to find some silver lining and make the best of it.

    Yes this quote can be used in a toxic positivity kind of mindset but it's also almost always in your best interest to make the best out of your situation, even if it's shitty.

  • Selfhosted alternative to google keep/onenote/evernote/goodnotes?

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  • Thanks!

  • Selfhosted alternative to google keep/onenote/evernote/goodnotes?

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  • Thanks a lot!

  • Selfhosted alternative to google keep/onenote/evernote/goodnotes?

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  • It really does have that same look that Google Keep has! Thanks for recommending, I will try this! Do you have experience with syncing Quillpad with Nextcloud?

  • Selfhosted alternative to google keep/onenote/evernote/goodnotes?

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  • Thanks!

  • Selfhosted @lemmy.world
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    Selfhosted alternative to google keep/onenote/evernote/goodnotes?

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  • You're right, I didn't come at this neutrally. I didn't get that you were talking from the perspective of being a guy, sorry. I respect that you still try to assume good intentions and you're right that it will probably get you further than assuming the worst about people. I might have been talking about a different point than you, but my view on that is still the same. I just do not think the guy in question had other intentions than to pick up a girl and I do not agree with his conclusion at the end. The whole concept of the incel mentality is just frustrating to me and I have no idea how to handle that. And yes you're right, that if the guys were a bit more elaborate on why dude was in the wrong they could've helped the dude. I mean he probably doesn't have friends in the first place which makes it even worse to try and talk to people.

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  • Yes you definitely have a point, I guess it would be better to assume the best and show compassion. I think it's just more difficult when creepieness becomes danger.

  • Grimes @lemm.ee
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    Grimes fan page!

  • Migraine @lemmy.world
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    How are your migraines affecting your work and how do you feel about that?