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okasen

@ okasen @slrpnk.net

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  • Carbs scoop

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  • I love this. We just use an old jam jar as our rice scoop (gives us about 4 dinner portions), but this is so much nicer looking! And I love that it can measure spaghetti too. That one is hard to get the right portion of.

  • Grocery co-ops pledge over $28,000 to Twin Cities Pride after Target was uninvited

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  • Thank you so much for sharing this. What a lovely bit of news!

  • UK government having a public consultation on the future of transport. Share your ideas directly to the government!

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  • I’m in Scotland but responded anyways!

  • Parents, how excited for Christmas are your children ?

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  • She is 6 months and has no idea that the 20 shiny wrapped boxes under the glow tree are predominantly gifts for her from family. I also don’t think she has the concept of a gift yet. Or holidays. Or time.

    But she’s been squeaking a lot today so… moderately?

  • A few months ago I picked up some free potatoes that were going to compost

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  • I couldn’t say it any better than this tbh. But it’s a very good question to ask!

  • Solarpunk @slrpnk.net
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    A few months ago I picked up some free potatoes that were going to compost

  • SLRPNK Music @slrpnk.net
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    Hallowed Devotion | Feat. Kasane Teto AI & Kagamine Len

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Reputable trans housing charities in California (LA area)?

  • Trick Wednesday - what is the latest parenting "hack" you figured out?

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  • Oh geez this. My parents never let me try out new things if they would be messy or might fail. I wanted a veggie garden, nope. Baking, too messy. Tons of craft things were vetoed for a very long time too. Thankfully as an adult I’ve rekindled these desires, and i have a garden I cultivate and a sourdough starter going (as examples). But I do mourn the learning I could have done as a kid.

    I’m determined to let my kid do messy things. Right now the messiest thing she can do is spit up, but when she’s older she can have so much play doh and dirt time and baking time.

    (Play doh only if she’s not eating it)

  • Protip, expectant parents: ear defenders. Loop earplugs. Whatever. Buy them NOW

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  • I appreciate the sentiment (it hasn’t gotten better per se yet, but we’ve gotten more used to the… nature of the screams) and also I wanted to apologise for being rather combative in explaining the context— which, yeah, was definitely missing in the original post. Gonna edit that now to make this post less rant, more informative.

  • Protip, expectant parents: ear defenders. Loop earplugs. Whatever. Buy them NOW

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  • Yep this. I’ve been given the advice to step away from my baby when she’s crying if I’m overwhelmed and she’s in a safe place. That’s advice from basically every medical professional I’ve encountered during pregnancy and post partum. Because it is so, so important to not let your nerves get fried in an attempt to be a perfect parent, because letting your nerves get fried will lead to shit you’ll regret down the line. Be that shouting or checking out mentally or way worse stuff.

  • Protip, expectant parents: ear defenders. Loop earplugs. Whatever. Buy them NOW

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  • Ear plugs =/= can’t hear. Loops specifically are designed to allow you to hear but not have hearing damage.

    My baby is colicky AF and will scream while we’re in the process of making her a bottle. Or while we’re burping her. Or when we have to pull the bottle away to wipe spit up. Or while we’re in the process of soothing her but not soothed yet.

    I’m pretty patient (with children, not judgy parents though) but I’m not perfect. I can parent better and be more present while not massively overwhelmed by a noise designed by evolution to be horrible and intolerable.

  • Parenting @lemmy.world
    okasen @slrpnk.net

    Protip, expectant parents: ear defenders. Loop earplugs. Whatever. Buy them NOW

  • Parents, how do you manage summer breaks, who takes care of your children when there is no school?

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  • I’m so sorry. I almost wanted to downvote this because I want to downvote the circumstance.

    But heeeeeey that would sort childcare… woohoo…

  • Trick Wednesday - what is the latest "hack" you figured out?

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  • The swaddle. My child has learned being awake is fun. Including at night. By the power invested in me by this swaddle blanket, she will learn the beauty of SLEEP.

  • Trick Wednesday - what is the latest "hack" you figured out?

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  • I grew up such a people pleaser that this would have worked SO well on me. Stop leads to “why?” But my parent being upset, or god forbid dosappointed… those are some words of great power.

  • Progress Tuesday - What is your child's latest achievement?

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  • I swear my nearly 3 week old is starting to turn her head towards me, and occasionally even try to focus her eyes on me, when I speak to her up close.

    She wasn’t even meant to be born for another 12 days! At least going by due dates. But honestly as much as I’ve researched adjusted age for preterm babies, I’m becoming convinced I can ignore all that. I can see her speeding towards the 2 month milestones (the first checkpoint, essentially). She’s not hit them yet, that would be crazy, but I’m seeing early signs like the above.

    Also she read Watership Down.

    Okay it was an abridged version for kids and I did the reading. But she liked the pictures.

  • It's Saturday, what is the latest funny thing that your child did or said?

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  • Okay not strictly words, like at all, but the other day I had my baby in my lap and she randomly arched backwards, pursed her lips in an O, and after a dramatic pause let out a long “oooooooooooh”

    I knew then I was sleep deprived because I lost my shit laughing.

    Tl:dr; “ooooooooh”

  • Parenting @lemmy.world
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    Parenting in an uncertain future, solidarity? Feels?

  • Trick Wednesday - what is the latest "hack" you figured out?

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  • If your freshly born newborn doesn’t poop because she’s constipated, well they work surprisingly like toothpaste tubes if you hold their knees to their chest.

    I’m sorry for the image. I’ve earned my “grit your teeth and do what you gotta” merit badge at just a week and a half postpartum, so I’m… happy?

  • [Meta] Are there still parents around here? Would you like to have a weekly discussion post? This community seems very quiet seen as this is a quite common topic (or maybe everyone is busy parenting)

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  • I would love a general/weekly discussion post! Currently 8 months pregnant with my first, so I’ll take any chance to connect with other parents once she is here.

  • Community community @slrpnk.net
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    Objected to a home nearby becoming an AirBnB - now I'm invited to a meeting with the council. Help?

  • Eastern Prickly Pear about to pop!

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  • Beautiful! And I bet it’ll be even more beautiful in bloom!

    Do you harvest from this patch and eat them? I’ve never had prickly pear, but everyone I know who has raves about it. Therefor, I am jealous 😄

  • community is punk

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  • I would just like to both validate and challenge your view of the UK. I lived in Torquay (Devon, so the southwest) for a good long while, albeit during the height of lockdowns, and community felt nonexistant. There were some punk-type-folks attempting to get stuff started right when I moved away, but only just then iirc.

    I moved to Inverness (Scottish Highlands) and it’s night and day. There’s a queer community doing hella shit, there’s a tool library popping off, lots of good local initiatives are being organised and taking off.

    My kneejerk response is to say that Inverness beats the hell outta Torquay. But the thing is, about 4-5 years ago NONE OF THE STUFF I mentioned was going on. The queer meetup was organised by one dude who moved up from London and was gobsmacked that there wasn’t an active community. Now it’s consistently a huge, weekly event. There are even offshoots of quieter meetups that had to be created because the main one is So Successful. But all the local queers will tell you that before this started, they thought they were all alone up here.

    And the tool library is only about a year old, but keeping on well.

    So on one hand, yeah, I think the UK has a very… independent culture. But once someone identifies a need in a community and fills that need, people tend to show up and appreciate it.

    Also, i reckon this is a good time to be an organiser. People are tired of being alone during a pandemic, people are tired of seeing what other communities do via the internet and want their communities to do the same.

    Tl;dr be the change! There’s an appetite for it.

  • Join the Trans Housing Network matrix room

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  • What an awesome thing. Reminds me of the Trans Couch Network on tumblr back in the day, I always wondered if there was something else to take its place.

    (I have the same concerns as I did then of the potential for abuse, like someone else said, but I don’t have any actionable advice/etc yet. But queer housing is a major Thing to me so I might do some research/thinking on the subject of abuse mitigation, if that’s welcome)

  • Antiwork @slrpnk.net
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    Discussion: what would you do in a post-work society?

  • Solarpunk @slrpnk.net
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    How do you have a baby The Solarpunk Way? AKA, without using Amazon?

  • clothing @slrpnk.net
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    I turned a dress into a cowl sweater: A smol blogpost

    okasen.smol.pub /how-a-dress-becomes-a-sweater
  • Solarpunk @slrpnk.net
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    A smolnet post I made on doomerism and dead cities

    okasen.smol.pub /dead-cities
  • Planet Smolnet @lemmy.sdf.org
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    I have joined the smolnet

    okasen.smol.pub /about
  • Radical Animal Husbandry @slrpnk.net
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    Learn to break down whole chickens and build your respect for the whole animal while improving your meal planning!

  • Offgrid living @slrpnk.net
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    Kickstarter

    A simulation app for off grid systems

    www.kickstarter.com /projects/land-lab-simulator/off-grid-simulation-designer-app-the-land-lab-simulator/
  • Solarpunk Farming @slrpnk.net
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    can home-farmed meat be a part of solarpunk?