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ricesoup

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  • jho

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  • Regarding criticism of things the manager does: hard no. That’s not your place and IMO no good can come of it. Just put it right out of your mind.

    then a genuine relationship with this person or with any manager fwiw is not possible.

    I like to have genuine people in my life, including the workplace. The fake ones always drain me.

  • jho

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  • The conversation about things being fair, save it for later. Put a lot more thought into it.

    I don't agree: this conversation would be the perfect opportunity to reset our relationship, to establish new foundations to have a friendly relationship with no lingering bad feelings on either side. And that means talking about the things she does as a manager I find unfair.

    It's not really dramatic stuff, just regular things managers everywhere do because they're used to or have been conditioned to do or because they don't have time.

    Would you explain why your approach is better than mine?

  • jho

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  • Where you need to be careful is the transactional nature of the apology. I.e. Maybe if you apologize then you can tell her what she did to piss you off. That’s a bad play in any relationship.

    I'm sorry, I don't understand this paragraph. You mean I CANNOT tell her what she did to piss me off?

    That’s a bad play in any relationship.

    I don't agree: If I want to clear the air it cannot be one sided, the context has to be considered as well. If the context is not considered then the problem festers, the apology becomes useless.

    The context in this case means what made me react like I did, which would be not listening to her.

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    jho

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    del

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    what can I do at my workplace during downtime?

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    what can I do at my workplace during downtime?

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    would you visit an authoritarian country if you had the chance to live there up to 4 weeks for free even if you believe multiparty democracy to be something non negotiable?

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    would you visit an authoritarian country if you had the chance to live there up to 4 weeks for free even if you believe multiparty democracy to be something non negotiable?

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    is this manager scared of me?

  • qas

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  • Ewww.

    personal experience?

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    hty

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    qas

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    Is it normal feeling tired 2 days in a row, possibly 3, after catching a cold?

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    is there any way to invest ethically as a sole individual?

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    is there any way to invest ethically as a sole individual?

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    can European intelligence substitute the American one?

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    dear republicans, what's the point of alienating every single ally of the US?

  • Is there any hope for Ukraine to survive as an independent state now that trump is desperately wishing for a peace treaty with Russia, even bypassing Ukraine?

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  • I'm not trying to diminish the quality or importance of the French military, the only EU country with an independent industrial military complex, but as of 2025 USAF has 385 operative F-35 and another 1,350 on order. Many NATO allies are procuring this fighter. This is a 5th generation fighter, the Dassault Rafale and the Dassault Mirage 2000 are 4th generation. Currently, no 5th generation fighters are being produced in the EU.

    Unpopular opinion, but the Americans have better quality airframes and produce more. On a wide EU-Russia conflict the EU would still depend on US made weaponry. Sad but true.

    Which should be a reason good enough to create an EU wide military industrial complex and make your own 5th and 6th generation fighters and your own defense systems.

    But the EU is eternally disunited.