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somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 2d ago

This is a fantastic retort

somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 2d ago

It does look like him in some way!

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somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 2d ago

For some reason, pictures of kitties always make more of an impact on me than if there were people. Thank you!

somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 3d ago

I love it. He seems very sweet!

somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 3d ago

I will reply to your comment to generate a notification wishing you a fantastic day, internet stranger!

somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 2w ago

This is a very very very good analogy

somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 2w ago

We all miss our furry friends when they are gone. Hoping you can remember the great moments you spent together ❤️

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somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 2w ago

This is a good write up. Thanks for sharing. I use “hide my email” sometimes and it’s important to know that it’s possible to find the real address behind it.

somebody_to_love @lemmy.today 2w ago

Good advice on this thread, but the only one that will work for you is: find a good therapist.

A good therapist is one that not only understands your issue, but also understands you, and is able to guide you in a way that works for you. Not all people will be healed by using the same methods, and the main task of a good therapist is to find the one that clicks for you.

I would tell what worked for me, but it may not be useful. But the previous step worked: I found a good therapist which told me what I had to do.

(In case you’re already talking to an LLM: please don’t. I compared my therapist’s advice with those of an LLM -with a good prompt and all cautions observed- but the LLM didn’t “get” me and its advice was useless and sometimes outright wrong)

Edit: after reading some more replies, some people recommend taking drugs (legal or illegal). DON’T. The wrong drug will fuck you up. This includes antidepressants. Wait until a good therapist prescribes them for you. If the therapist and the GP disagree, follow the therapist’s advice. In my case this was critical as it helped me find the right medication and later quit it successfully - which is as important if not more than taking it.