Wow. You have some real problems, you should probably see someone about this.
I already had to live through unemployment in the EU, it's really not so bad. None of those symptoms at least.
Yes, I was happy to finally find a job, tailored to my needs.
I'm using Sonoff switches. They work very well with HA but they also operate independently if it's down. So I always install the behind a physical switch, that way I always have a backup in case something's wrong (and I know it will happen).
This. Both of you have plenty of time to make other experiences and change your mind about many things. Don't stress, enjoy the moment and change something if the moment isn't enjoyable.
No. Any pointer ?